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jaclcfrost:

things to not show in school

  • weakness
  • emotions
  • a pack of gum
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1. If you don’t like the way he kisses you, you won’t like the way he fucks you. Get up and leave.

2. If he won’t go down on you, but expects you to go down on him, laugh. Get up and leave.

3. If you don’t want to do something and he doesn’t respect that, slap him round the face. Get up and leave.

4. If he isn’t okay with the imperfections on your skin, if he says they turn him off, get up and leave.

5. If you don’t want to shave your legs and he thinks that’s disgusting and refuses to touch them, get up and leave.

6. If he doesn’t see your body as a masterpiece, as a complete work of art, get up and leave.

7. If he makes you feel uncomfortable about any part of your body, get up and leave.

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-Get up and leave // E.E  (via preciouspayne)
soupy-campbell: a girl that I follow made a post about rape that made me really upset. she said that rape does not run through the minds of "normal" men like how murder doesn't go through the mind it normal people, only psychos commit rape. we should not be angry at men, but we should be angry with rapists. can you please help me formulate a response to a statement like this? I need to validate my being upset because when people say stuff like this it makes me feel like it's absolute and I'm in the wrong

misandry-mermaid:

I’d present her with these statistics and ask her to explain them (bolded for relevance to your specific situation)

"Only Psychos Think Rape is OK…Right? - Societal Attitudes Supporting Rape"

A survey of 6,159 college students enrolled at 32 institutions in the U.S. found the following: (ref 4)

  • 54% of the women surveyed had been the victims of some form of sexual abuse; more than one in four college-aged women had been the victim of rape or attempted rape;
  • 57% of the assaults occurred on dates;
  • 73% of the assailants and 55% of the victims had used alcohol or other drugs prior to the assault;
  • 25% of the men surveyed admitted some degree of sexually aggressive behavior;
  • 42% of the victims told no one.
  • In a survey of high school students, 56% of the girls and 76% of the boys believed forced sex was acceptable under some circumstances. (ref 5)

A survey of 11-to-14 year-olds found: (ref 5)

  • 51% of the boys and 41% of the girls said forced sex was acceptable if the boy, “spent a lot of money” on the girl;
  • 31% of the boys and 32% of the girls said it was acceptable for a man to rape a woman with past sexual experience;
  • 87% of boys and 79% of girls said sexual assault was acceptable if the man and the woman were married;
  • 65% of the boys and 47% of the girls said it was acceptable for a boy to rape a girl if they had been dating for more than six months.

In a survey of male college students:

  • 35% anonymously admitted that, under certain circumstances, they would commit rape if they believed they could get away with it (ref 6,7).
  • One in 12 admitted to committing acts that met the legal definitions of rape, and 84% of men who committed rape did not label it as rape. (ref 6,7)

In another survey of college males: (ref 8)

  • 43% of college-aged men admitted to using coercive behavior to have sex, including ignoring a woman’s protest, using physical aggression, and forcing intercourse.
  • 15% acknowledged they had committed acquaintance rape; 11% acknowledged using physical restraints to force a woman to have sex.
  • Women with a history of rape or attempted rape during adolescence were almost twice as likely to experience a sexual assault during college, and were three times as likely to be victimized by a husband. (ref 9)
  • Sexual assault is reported by 33% to 46% of women who are being physically assaulted by their husbands.(ref 10)

[Source]

officialartemis: did u know that in texas it's not legal to hand out condoms in school during sex ed classes???

misandry-mermaid:

Hmmmmm why might that be?  Couldn’t be that the unwanted and forced pregnancy of teenagers widens the career, income, and educational gap between women and men, especially effecting women of color, which falls perfectly in line with a conservative christian utopia right?  Nah, can’t be.  That’s just too convenient.